Many people view relationships with unrealistic expectations. We learn most of what to expect from relationships from books, movies and television. When it comes to relationships, however, this is where our expectations become myths, and are not founded in reality. Have you seen some of the “reality” shows on television? People fighting over one person to find true love in a matter of months? What does this have to do with reality? Does a situation, like the one on television ever happen in reality? No. Is it any wonder why relationships are so screwed up? No.
Drama should be saved for television shows and movies, not your relationships. At least not at an unhealthy level. A good relationship has its ups and downs, but the melodramatics are kept at a low….they don’t get out of control or happen too often. When there is drama, it is short lived and does not cause any real damage to the relationship. Realistically, couples do fight, but not like the “real housewives of wherever”.
Do You See Relationships Realistically?
In the movies and on television, men and women just seem to “know” what the right thing to do or say is. They even have some sort of psychic ability to know what the one they love things, feels, and needs without asking. In reality, you have to make your feelings and needs known to one another. Don’t expect the one you love to guess. That is a test they will almost always fail.
On television and in the movies, couples in love spend so much time with each another they may as well be Siamese twins. In reality, it is healthy and acceptable for couples to spend some time apart, not like everything the other likes, and have a difference of opinion.
In the movies and on televisions, relationships that are meant to be always work out, and usually by divine intervention. In reality, people need to put time, energy and effort into their relationships to make them work, and keep them working.
In the movies and on television, bad relationships can change overnight. In reality, change is hard, and most people resist it.
Tarot readings by phone with Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise can help show you the reality of your relationship, because the time has come to face it. Do not have unrealistic expectations or expect your relationship to fix it self, or survive everything. If you want it to change, you will need to help orchestrate that change. A tarot reading with expert master tarot readers and love psychics, Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise, can help you find the right relationship for you, and do what needs to be done to keep it thriving.