When will he commit is a question we get from many callers.
When you first meet someone there is the hope that you will click. And as you continue to spend time together, you enter in to a relationship.
To most people being in a relationship means that there’s a commitment from both parties.
But what if you’re someone for a while, and although you feel like you are in a relationship, no commitment is forthcoming?
WILL HE COMMIT IF YOU ASK HIM?
Sometimes women summon up the courage to ask their boyfriend for a commitment. Opening up a dialogue about commitment with the man in their life will do one of two things. Either it will offer a satisfactory result or one that leaves them feeling disappointment.
The man in your life could simply say they aren’t ready for a commitment. Or they could say they don’t know if or when they ever will be. So what are you supposed to do in a situation like that?
Hope for the best that some day the commitment fairy will bless you with the relationship you want? Should you wait and see if a commitment is forthcoming? What if you wait for a commitment and never get one? How long is a reasonable time to stick with a relationship without a commitment?
The answers vary for each couple.
Some women may not be ready to commit themselves to the relationship yet either. They’re more than willing to wait for a commitment from the man they’re seeing. It gives them time to see if they are ready to fully commit themselves. They realize both members of a couple should be ready for a commitment at the same time.
What often happens between men and women though is that the woman IS committed to the relationship, and the man is not.
The man KNOWS the woman is committed. She has let him know either verbally or by her actions. Or both. He didn’t have to offer her a commitment in order to get one from her.
She committed to him without getting a commitment in return.That was her mistake. And it’s a mistake many women make when it comes to commitment.
One of the reasons a man won’t commit and be in an exclusive relationship is because he already has a commitment from you! He knows you aren’t seeing, sleeping with or dating anyone else.
So what does he get by giving you a commitment? Nothing. He already haseverything he needs. He also doesn’t feel a sense of urgency to give you one. And that’s because you’re already with him without a commitment. He also feels you won’t end the relationship.
WILL HE CHANGE HIS MIND?
Can his frame of mind when it comes to commitment changed? This question can be answered with tarot readings by phone. Wouldn’t you rather know how or if you can speed the process of getting your commitment from him? Wouldn’t you like to know if your man is committed to this relationship he has with you?
Sometimes, without giving you a commitment per say, he still behaves as if he did. He may not have committed to you, but has no intention or desire to sleep with another woman, date another woman, or do anything with another woman. Because he is happy with you.
He’s just waiting until he feels ready to discuss commitment with you. Wouldn’t knowing that make your wait a lot easier? We can tell you what is going on inside that man, or woman’s heart and mind. We can tell you why he hasn’t committed to you.
And if you aren’t getting a commitment from him, why not make a commitment to yourself? Tarot readings by phone will provide the help you need to get the commitment you want, or to find out the truth that you will never get a commitment from this man and either accept that fact, or move on.