Getting back together with your ex may not be as easy, nor as difficult, as you may think. Break ups don’t always mean the end of a relationship. Sometimes it’s a time for each person involved to take a time-out.
During that time-out you should really take a good look at the relationship and determine if you really do want to consider getting back together with your ex. Your ex may share your opinion, or have a completely different opinion, regarding getting back together. A reconciliation is only going to happen if both parties agree to get back together.
THINGS TO CONSIDER BEFORE GETTING BACK TOGETHER
If you decide to you want to try getting back together with your ex, here are some considerations. The first thing you should do is give them a little space from the break up itself. Give their anger (or whatever emotion there may have) a little time to dissipate, just like yours will.
The next step is to look at why the break up happened in the first place. Did your ex do something wrong? Did your ex behave in a way that made you feel that breaking up with them was the only answer? What will your ex have to change, or do differently, to prevent a future break up? There is no point in focusing on getting back together with your ex if you do not resolve the issues that caused the break up in the first place.
WILL THEY COME BACK FOR GOOD?
Yes, you want your ex back, but will they be back to stay? If you get your ex back can you be sure they won’t repeat the same behavior that caused the break up? What do you need as reassurance from your ex that it won’t happen again? You have to be realistic!
Each fight and break up do damage to the relationship. Sure, when or if you get your ex back it will be all sunshine and roses at first. But the same problems you had before will rear their ugly faces again and causing another break up.
What if your ex does not want to get back together with you? You need to understand that you cannot force your ex to take you back. If you try, you may convince them even more they shouldn’t take you back. You have to look at the reasons they gave you for breaking up. Rather than defend, for instance, why you are always late and forget to call, ask yourself truthfully if you really CAN stop being late and REMEMBER to call.
If you can’t, or won’t take the change seriously, don’t bother trying to get your ex back. Unless you can convince your ex that you can and will change, you may not get a second chance. Trust us, if you DO get a second chance and do the same things all over again, kiss your third chance goodbye. They will be convinced you will NEVER change and it will be over for good.
HOW TAROT READINGS BY PHONE CAN HELP
Sometimes the things men and women try to get an ex back actually backfires big time. Instead of bringing the ex closer, it makes them run further away! Lady Rhiannon and Lady Branwyn can give you the guidance you need, as well as action steps, to get your ex back. Forget about spells that won’t work and are just a waste of your money. Do something that has the greatest chance of success, and your psychic reading can tell you exactly what that is. We will not tell you what you want to here, because not every ex will take you back.
Unfortunately it can’t be that way, because not all relationships are meant to last. Some will move on to other relationships and leave you behind. You have to find out the truth, either way, so you can do what is best to get your ex back, or let them go and get closure for yourself. Don’t resort to melodramatic tactics that won’t work on your ex. Your ex won’t come back (and if they do by some miracle they won’t stay) because you make them feel guilty. Guilt won’t work. They have to come back because they love you and don’t want to move forward without you. Let us help devise a plan for getting back together, or accept that your ex has moved on. It’s time you found out the truth.
Originally posted on 08/20/2013 @ 8:58 am